You were never meant to live in survival mode
SelfLedLife is a self-leadership education platform for women ready to stop reacting and start leading themselves. Built on the RESET Framework, designed for the woman who's done just getting through the day.
Founder of the Stop Surviving. Start Living. movement
All My Friends Call Me Kim
You're successful on paper. But internally, you're running on a nervous system that never got to rest.
The world sees someone who has it together. You feel the weight of holding every reaction, every emotion, every response in check.
You don't need more affirmations or "good vibes only." You need tools that work with your nervous system, not against it.
The pause isn't weakness. It's the foundation of self-leadership — and it's learnable.
You weren't born knowing how to regulate. You can learn it now. This is education, not therapy.
It's a movement of women transitioning out of survival mode into intentional living — emotionally, relationally, financially.
The 5-module course teaches you how to interrupt survival patterns and practice self-led responses.
The learning platform powered by the Stop Surviving. Start Living. movement. More tools, more frameworks, all built for self-leadership after survival.
A community of women who've decided: enough. Enough reacting. Enough guilt. Enough surviving. It's time to lead.
You're not broken. You're not "too emotional." You're a high-functioning woman whose nervous system learned to prioritize survival over everything else.
That pattern kept you alive. But it's not the way you want to keep living. Self-leadership is what comes next.
You don't need another self-help book. You need a framework that meets you where you are — and walks you out of the pattern.
Testimonials and transformation stories coming soon as students complete the RESET course.
The entry point into self-led living. Five modules. One framework. The beginning of a different way to live.
No fixing yourself. Just learning a different way to respond.
Start at your own pace. Return whenever you need the reset.
No. This is self-leadership education — it teaches you frameworks and tools to understand your patterns. If you're currently in crisis or need clinical support, please work with a licensed professional. RESET is designed to complement therapy, not replace it.
The 5 modules are designed to be completed over 1–2 weeks at your own pace. Each module builds on the previous one, and Module 5 includes a 7-day practice plan. But you have lifetime access — go as slow as you need.
Most emotional regulation courses cost $500–$1,200. We believe the entry point to self-leadership should be accessible. $47 is launch pricing — the goal is to get these tools into as many hands as possible. The price will increase as we add more content.
RESET is different because it starts with your nervous system, not your mindset. Most programs tell you to "think differently." We start with why your body reacts the way it does, then build from there. The RESET Framework is body-first, science-backed, and designed for women who are tired of generic advice.
Yes. After purchase, you'll receive immediate access to all 5 modules. You can start Module 1 within minutes of signing up.
Leaving a conversation and not replaying it for hours.
Trusting your response instead of questioning it.
Feeling calm without forcing it.
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No spam. Just practical tools for self-led living.
You don't have to figure everything out today. You just have to start differently.
This is where self-leadership begins.
She doesn't need more willpower. She needs the tools to let go of the patterns that kept her safe but stuck. Self-led living starts with one decision: enough.