This isn't a quiz. It's a conversation — the kind you have with someone who genuinely wants to know how you're doing. Answer honestly. Nobody's grading you. This is just for you.
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Joy & Happiness
Do you have joy in your life?
Not performed happiness. Not "I'm fine." Real, genuine joy — the kind that lives in your chest, not just on your face.
How often do you feel genuinely happy?
Rarely — I can't remember the last time
Sometimes — in moments, but not consistently
Often — more good days than hard ones
Most days — happiness feels natural to me
What brings you the most happiness? Choose everything that applies.
My relationships and people I love
My work or creative pursuits
My faith and spiritual life
Quiet time, rest, and being present
Growth, learning, and becoming more
Honestly, I'm still figuring that out
How often do you think about changing something in your life?
Almost never — I feel settled
Occasionally — mostly small things
Often — something feels off and I know it
Constantly — I think about it every day
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Stress & Overwhelm
How are you really holding up?
Stress is normal. Drowning in it isn't. This section is about honesty — not performance.
How manageable does the stress in your life feel right now?
Drag the slider to where you honestly are.
Completely overwhelmedTotally manageable
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Getting by, but carrying more than I'd like
Where does most of your stress come from? Choose everything that applies.
Work and career pressure
Money and financial uncertainty
Relationships and family dynamics
My own expectations of myself
Feeling like I'm not where I should be in life
Everything — it all feels like too much right now
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Spiritual Life
What feeds your soul?
This section is yours to define. Faith, spirituality, purpose — whatever that looks like for you. There's no right answer here.
Is spirituality or faith important to your life?
Yes
Not really
How do you connect with God or your higher self? Choose everything that applies.
Prayer — daily conversation with God
Meditation and stillness
Church or faith community
Reading scripture or spiritual texts
Time in nature
I want to — but I've drifted from my practice
When you face a big decision, which feels most like you?
I take quiet time — I pray, reflect, or sit with it
I meditate or journal to get clear
I'm decisive — I trust my gut and move
I overthink and struggle to decide
I avoid the decision as long as possible
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Financial Life
Are you financially where you want to be?
Money is one of the clearest mirrors of where we actually are versus where we want to go. Let's be honest about the picture.
Are you financially where you want to be in life?
Yes
Getting there
Not yet
Do you know what you need to do to get to where you want to be financially?
Yes — I have a clear picture
No — I'm not sure where to start
Are you actively on that path?
Yes — I have a plan and I'm working it
Sort of — I take steps but then fall off
Not really — I know I should but I avoid it
No plan yet — I don't know where to begin
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Relationships
Are your relationships a blessing or a drain?
The people in your life shape your life. These questions are about honesty, not loyalty. You can love someone and still tell the truth about how they make you feel.
Read each statement. Answer honestly.
The people in my life generally energize me, not drain me.
✓ True
✗ False
The people in my life care about what is important to me.
✓ True
✗ False
I feel free to be myself in my closest relationships.
✓ True
✗ False
There are relationships in my life I know I need to address or change.
✓ True
✗ False
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Purpose & Calling
Do you know why you're here?
Many people spend years living someone else's version of purpose. We're not assuming you know yours — we're asking.
When it comes to your purpose in life...
I know exactly what it is — and I'm living it
I have a sense of it — but I'm still figuring out how to live it
I'm actively searching for it
I've never really thought about it that deeply
I used to know — but I've lost my way
Does your daily life feel aligned with what actually matters to you?
Yes — most days feel intentional and meaningful
Sometimes — it depends on the week
Rarely — I spend most of my time on things that don't matter to me
I'm not sure — I haven't thought about it that way before
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How You See Yourself
When you look in the mirror — what do you see?
This might be the most important section of all. Everything else flows from here.
When you look in the mirror, what do you see most often?
A woman I'm proud of — and still becoming
Someone with potential who's not quite there yet
A woman who is tired — and needs more than she's getting
Mostly the flaws — I'm my own harshest critic
I avoid the mirror — it's complicated
Do you speak kindly to yourself?
Yes — I'm my own encourager
No — I'm harder on myself than anyone else
Have you forgiven yourself for the time you spent not knowing how amazing you truly are?
Yes — I've made peace with my past
Still working on it
Honestly, no — I still carry a lot of it
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The Big Question
Are you ready to change your life?
Not "are you ready to think about it." Not "are you interested." Are you ready to actually do something different — starting now?
Right now, when it comes to changing your life — I am...
Ready — and I mean it. I'm done waiting.
Almost ready — I want to, but I'm scared
Still thinking — not quite there yet
Not sure — I came here curious and I'm still figuring out what I want
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Your Honest Life Audit
Here's what your answers say.
What Stands Out
What Comes Next
Now you have the picture. Step 2 is defining what you want instead.
You've just done something most people never do — you looked honestly at your life. All of it. That takes courage. Now take the next step: use the Building the Life We Love guide to define exactly what you want your life to look like. Then the RESET Course gives you the framework to remove everything standing in your way.